Book Review

The book is Quiet Strength by Tony Dungy.

In our age of cynicism, role models and heroes are hard to find. How refreshing to find a book about a genuine American hero. No, he's not a war hero. He's not even a football hero really; his Super Bowl victory was merely the vehicle that allowed us all to learn about this outstanding man. If he wasn't a football coach, I'm convinced he would be just as successful at something else.

This isn't really a book about football. Sure, football is an integral part of his story and is Tony's chosen profession. But the real story of the book is about life, family, faith, success, and leadership.

Something that naturally draws me to view Tony as a role model is that he's a rare public example of my own core values. He's a strong Christian but is not preachy or pushy about it; he inspires by his personal example. He firmly believes that yelling or berating others is counterproductive. He always treats others with respect, holding firm to the Golden Rule. He understands life's priorities and lives accordingly.

His core principles related to football are applicable to any endeavor. He repeats the manta often to his players, "do what we do". To become a successful football team, you don't need lots of tricks or creativity; you simply need to focus on the small things, doing them over and over until they become second nature. The rest takes care of itself.

Whatever one does in life, that's good advice. Do the small things to the best of your ability, and the big things will take care of themselves.

As a football and Colts fan, I can see the effect of Tony's leadership. The team reflects their leader. They're not chippy or dirty. They don't "trash talk" - in fact, the book mentions that others have remarked about the general lack of profanity through the team. That's not because Tony won't allow profanity - it's because of the fact that Tony won't allow himself to use it, and the team respects him enough to emulate him. They don't get overly excited, and they don't let adversity get them down. They are steady and businesslike and competent. Just like their coach.

The tragic loss of Tony's son to suicide would have ripped most families apart. Tony and his family found a way to deal with their grief that bound them all closer together instead. I can't imagine what incredible faith and strength were required to allow him to survive that tragedy.

I hope every man in the country reads this book. Imagine what could happen if many more men embraced and attempted to live Tony's simple life principles.